#PhilosophyThursdays will feature my take on some profound
philosophical quotes by prominent philosophers. I write a new post every third
Thursday of every month. From this week, it will feature in my blog ‘Mindful
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The quote of this week is one of the most famous quotes
about relationships from Kahlil Gibran's 'The Prophet': 'Let there be spaces in
your togetherness, and let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one
another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the
shores of your souls.'
This quote beautifully encapsulates the balance between
intimacy and individuality within relationships. At first glance, the notion of
'spaces in your togetherness' might seem counterintuitive. In a world that
often celebrates constant togetherness, Gibran offers a refreshing perspective.
He reminds us that healthy relationships require room to breathe – space for
each individual to flourish and grow, even within the context of partnership.
Creating space allows partners to maintain their sense of
self, pursue their own interests, and continue evolving as individuals. This
autonomy not only prevents co-dependency but also enhances mutual respect and
appreciation. When each person has the freedom to explore their passions and
aspirations, they bring more richness and depth to the relationship.
What is important to note is that Gibran does not suggest a distance or detachment. He emphasizes the importance of maintaining a deep connection while honouring the unique identity of each person involved. 'Love one another but make not a bond of love,' he advises, suggesting that love should be expansive rather than confining.
Gibran’s wisdom aligns with my ideology reflected in a quote
from my latest novel ‘Taste of Fate’: “Having a strong independent presence in
a nurturing relationship is the key to harmony.”
Before we can fully give ourselves to another, we must first
cultivate a deep sense of inner wholeness and acceptance. Only then can we
enter into a partnership as equals, sharing our lives without losing ourselves
in the process.
Embrace the beauty of space in togetherness.
Honor the uniqueness of each individual.
Here’s to a love that opens hearts and minds.
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