Thursday, April 18, 2024

Unbounded Love #PhilosophyThursdays

#PhilosophyThursdays will feature my take on some profound philosophical quotes by prominent philosophers. I write a new post every third Thursday of every month. From this week, it will feature in my blog ‘Mindful Conversations.’ Please follow to stay updated and notified.

The quote of this week is one of the most famous quotes about relationships from Kahlil Gibran's 'The Prophet': 'Let there be spaces in your togetherness, and let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.'

This quote beautifully encapsulates the balance between intimacy and individuality within relationships. At first glance, the notion of 'spaces in your togetherness' might seem counterintuitive. In a world that often celebrates constant togetherness, Gibran offers a refreshing perspective. He reminds us that healthy relationships require room to breathe – space for each individual to flourish and grow, even within the context of partnership.



Creating space allows partners to maintain their sense of self, pursue their own interests, and continue evolving as individuals. This autonomy not only prevents co-dependency but also enhances mutual respect and appreciation. When each person has the freedom to explore their passions and aspirations, they bring more richness and depth to the relationship.

What is important to note is that Gibran does not suggest a distance or detachment. He emphasizes the importance of maintaining a deep connection while honouring the unique identity of each person involved. 'Love one another but make not a bond of love,' he advises, suggesting that love should be expansive rather than confining.

Gibran’s wisdom aligns with my ideology reflected in a quote from my latest novel ‘Taste of Fate’: “Having a strong independent presence in a nurturing relationship is the key to harmony.”

Before we can fully give ourselves to another, we must first cultivate a deep sense of inner wholeness and acceptance. Only then can we enter into a partnership as equals, sharing our lives without losing ourselves in the process.

Embrace the beauty of space in togetherness.

Honor the uniqueness of each individual.

Here’s to a love that opens hearts and minds.

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